You scroll through Instagram, whilst heating up your children’s dinner and you are bombarded with images of other mums with blow waved hair & impeccable makeup, cooking their children’s dinner from scratch… and BOOM Mum Guilt!
You sit down on the couch with a freshly made pot of tea while the kids are still sleeping….. Mum Guilt!
You organise a babysitter so you and your husband can have a date night…. Mum Guilt!
Does this sound like you?
Do you feel guilty when you are away from your kids, or even just thinking about taking some time out for yourself?
You, my friend, are incredible!
and you are so worthy and deserving of taking time for you!
Taking time out for you is NOT selfish, but necessary!
There is only so far you will get by putting everyone else’s needs above your own, and neglecting the one person that needs your attention the most.. YOU!
It’s time you STOP neglecting your needs, think of your self-care as a WIN for your family.
You will feel happier, fresher & more able to take care of the ones you love if you take care of yourself first and here’s how you will do it!
1. STOP comparing yourself to everyone around you.
Stop scrolling through Instagram and Facebook looking at what everyone else is doing, because that is not real life! That is their highlight reel, not reality. I’m sure if you were to see their blooper reel your perspective on things would be a little different!
2. Make a commitment to doing something for yourself on a regular basis.
It could be 10 minutes to yourself while you drink your coffee
30 minutes to walk the dog
Doing some meditation
3. Schedule Your You Time in!
Once you’ve worked out what your commitment is above
sit down with your family/loved one’s and tell them why this is important to you then
Work out a time when you can schedule this in as an appointment without interruption (maybe you wake up before everyone else, or maybe you do it once your husband is home from work)
Write it down in your diary or schedule it into your calendar on your phone - Make this a non-negotiable.